FYI, Mesa Ethernet does not work with RTAI kernel, so either way you look at it, RTAI was/is for software stepping mostly.
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Personally i have in use a lot of parallel port machines, mostly with Ubuntu 10.04 still, and some new ones with Mint 19.2 and RTAI kernel, but i have much more with Mesa boards, and still i would say not to bother much with it as most of those machines with parallel port do not need the latest and greatest, the ISO for Ubuntu 6.04, 8.04, 10.04, and Wheezy are still available for download and all come with older versions of RTAI kernels.