Requesting assistance in installing linuxcnc on an Intel NUC11PAHi5

I'm attempting to install linuxcnc on an intel nuc using attention deficit disorders' video:
but when I get to the detect network hardware part at 9:17, my attempt says that no Ethernet card was detected and that if I know the name of the driver can I select it from the list.
The Nuc's Ethernet is Intel Ethernet Controller i225-V and the WiFi is Intel Wi-Fi 6 AX201. The drivers for the WiFi is select-able as "iwlwifi" from the list, but when I do it just returns to the list, which I assume its way of saying the driver is not correct or that something is wrong.
When I select "None of the above" from the list it asks if I have the drivers on a USB, so I downloaded the drivers from intel, but they couldn't be read (I assume they are only compatible with windows and I am a linux newbie).
I decided to install the system anyway and deal with the drivers when the system is online, but when I attempted to install the grub boot loader, it returned an error that it failed to install into /target/.
Its clear that something is fubar and if anyone has some advice I'd love to hear it at this point.

If you've installed V 2.8 from the iso on the lcnc web site, you are running Debian Buster which uses the 4.19 linux kernel
Support for the i225 NIC was not added until kernel version 5.7..
This means you need to install Debian Bullseye (kernel 5.10) or above.
The problem with Bullseye is there is no deb file so you would need to install linuxcnc by compling the source as described in the docs.
I therefore recommend you adopt Debian bookworm from this ISO
cdimage.debian.org/cdimage/unofficial/no...onfree/amd64/iso-cd/
Then you will be abe to install linuxcnc 2.9 from the debian repositories simply by typing
 

I guess I should have specified that I am trying to get probe basic along with linuxcnc. Will the it work with bookworm?

Yes, there is a script that installs the QT  dependencises which should get most things for QT. It is mentioned how to find it in the qtplasmac page and there is a page about Bullseye on the QTpyvcp site.

I've been following the guide: www.qtpyvcp.com/install/bullseye.html, although I am not sure I am supposed to based on the fact I am using bookworm on your recommendation.
I've gotten through the section on kernel parameters in the grub customizer, but the command to get a bunch of the dependencies returns a lot of errors that it cannot locate them:
E: Unable to locate package libarmadillo10
E: Unable to locate package libepsilon1
E: Unable to locate package libgdal28
E: Unable to locate package libgeos-3.9.0
E: Couldn't find any package by glob 'libgeos-3.9.0'
E: Unable to locate package libglew2.1
E: Couldn't find any package by glob 'libglew2.1'
E: Unable to locate package libnetcdf18
E: Unable to locate package libopencv-calib3d4.5
E: Couldn't find any package by glob 'libopencv-calib3d4.5'
E: Unable to locate package libopencv-contrib4.5
E: Couldn't find any package by glob 'libopencv-contrib4.5'
E: Unable to locate package libopencv-core4.5
E: Couldn't find any package by glob 'libopencv-core4.5'
E: Unable to locate package libopencv-dnn4.5
E: Couldn't find any package by glob 'libopencv-dnn4.5'
E: Unable to locate package libopencv-features2d4.5
E: Couldn't find any package by glob 'libopencv-features2d4.5'
E: Unable to locate package libopencv-flann4.5
E: Couldn't find any package by glob 'libopencv-flann4.5'
E: Unable to locate package libopencv-highgui4.5
E: Couldn't find any package by glob 'libopencv-highgui4.5'
E: Unable to locate package libopencv-imgcodecs4.5
E: Couldn't find any package by glob 'libopencv-imgcodecs4.5'
E: Unable to locate package libopencv-imgproc4.5
E: Couldn't find any package by glob 'libopencv-imgproc4.5'
E: Unable to locate package libopencv-ml4.5
E: Couldn't find any package by glob 'libopencv-ml4.5'
E: Unable to locate package libopencv-objdetect4.5
E: Couldn't find any package by glob 'libopencv-objdetect4.5'
E: Unable to locate package libopencv-photo4.5
E: Couldn't find any package by glob 'libopencv-photo4.5'
E: Unable to locate package libopencv-shape4.5
E: Couldn't find any package by glob 'libopencv-shape4.5'
E: Unable to locate package libopencv-stitching4.5
E: Couldn't find any package by glob 'libopencv-stitching4.5'
E: Unable to locate package libopencv-video4.5
E: Couldn't find any package by glob 'libopencv-video4.5'
E: Unable to locate package libopencv-videoio4.5
E: Couldn't find any package by glob 'libopencv-videoio4.5'
E: Unable to locate package libproj19
E: Package 'libtbb2' has no installation candidate
E: Unable to locate package libtesseract4
E: Unable to locate package python3-pil-dbg
E: Unable to locate package python3-pil.imagetk-dbg
E: Couldn't find any package by glob 'python3-pil.imagetk-dbg'
E: Package 'netcat' has no installation candidate
Where and how should I point the command to get these libraries and what can I do about the no installation candidate issues?

No effect on target

I would follow the method in the docs to find dependencies
linuxcnc.org/docs/devel/html/code/buildi...g-Build-Dependencies
But on bookworm, typingwill install linuxcnc and most dependencies
If you do wish to install from source, thats fine after that, there will be a few more required but it won't take long.
Just build and install your deb over the bookworm one 
I did a video on this