It's been mentioned a lot on this forum and on some others that Nvidia drivers do not play nice with real time kernels. That is due to the power saving features in those cards, same with plenty of AMD ones.
I did manage to get things working with an RTX 1060/6GB and RX580/8GB, but the latency goes to hell in a hand basket. Still usable with RX580 but not with NVIDIA.
I never install proprietary drivers on Linuxcnc machines, although most of my PC's and Laptops have Nvidia cards on them.
From experience, chances are bigger to use an AMD card than Nvidia, as AMD does not care much about electronic design guidelines, case in point, older RX480 would draw 9A from the PCI-E slot at 12V, while the max allowed is 75W or a smidge over 6A.
However you look at it, that is a stab in the dark, even the same card from diferent manufacturers migh or might not work.
My advice, do not bother with it.
The time and frustration you have put into it could have been forgone by buying another used PC for 50 to 100$. Dell and HP enterprise edition used ones work perfectly with Linuxcnc, i tested over 30 types of them.