Ah, I did not realize the images were yours, I thought it was the great cornholio dude (is that your old account, maybe?) and rodw who worked on them for some reason. That explains your interest in my setup, cool, I can certainly give you some feedback on why I chose RPi OS.
1. as mentioned before, I can't connect to wi-fi without running menu-config, and to run it, I need either a console or Ethernet. Connecting either is a hassle for me, I tend to run my Pi's headless with TigerVNC/noVNC. I've briefly looked at the rpi-image-builder the images are based upon and it seems like it's possible to mount the boot partition and edit some text file there so it sets stuff up on the first boot, but I have not dug deep - with RPi OS I can set that up in RPi Imager, together with the ssh key, the username and other stuff, it's much easier and it just works.
2. The kernel is custom-built from source with an RT patch, which makes it tricky to update it if I ever need to. There are now official RT kernels in the RPi apt repo and I can just apt install the new kernel. In general, the update cadence/mechanisms for the entire thing were - and still are - unclear to me.
3. I couldn't find the git repo where these images are built from.
github.com/LinuxCNC/rpi-img-builder-lcnc is 2 years old, rodw's upstream is slightly newer but still older than the published images. It seemed like those images were built ad-hoc once by someone and just uploaded to the server, and that looked like a bit of a red flag to me.
4. cnc/cnc as default username/password is not something I want. I could create a user for myself, sure, but with RPi Imager I don't have to, so why bother.
5. this entire menu-config thing is not what RPi OS uses and what people - myself included - are familiar with. Not a big deal of course, but in general - Raspberry Pi has an official distro that is well-maintained and well-known, and I don't see why I, for one, should use something else in the second half of 2025. I understand why your images were built in the first place - PREEMPT_RT was not mainline at the time, RPi OS tended to push Wayland aggressively, you wanted a turn-key solution that less experienced people could just write to an SD card and use, my headless requirement is rather uncommon, etc., etc., but my personal preferences kicked in and I made a choice.
I hope that clarifies it!