Hey, thanks for all the details.
Didn't help, though. (with regards to booting from DVD and not freezing immediately)
In WindowsXP on that machine, with that DVD-R drive, I can open the LinuxCNC DVD just fine, it isn't even struggling at all to read it (gauging from the *lack* of noise and delay the DVD has).
I see there is a windows executable "setup" on there, what is that? A viable alternate way to install it? I don't recall seeing that mentioned when I read some basic howto's.
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LOL! This is weird and funny.
So I noticed that my DVDR was detected as master, HDD as slave, I reversed that. Didn't change the "freeze after boot from DVD". But when I booted from USB card-reader, the "detecting CDROM" screen appeared like last time, and it took ages like last time. BUT, instead of a failure notice, it said "Loading additoinal components", and you could see BOTH, the USB and the DVD to be accessing data now, for a while, so the setup actually did fetch some data from the drive, while moving a progressbar showing something was loaded.
Although I booted from USB.
This is rather peculiar!
I do not know now whether disabling the things you told to disable (why, btw?), or changing master/slave did this change, but it seems to be installing now.
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I almost gave up for this evening because installing GRUB would remain on 3/4 progress for half an hour or so, and just as I wanted to turn off the thing, it goes to the "next page". That's now also taking long, mostly blinking the USB stick in funny patterns and hardly ever making the HDD LED visibly on. Is that normal, or only for my particular configuration of hardware of different degrees of outdatedness?