Here comes the "Grumpy Old Man Response".
1: That's your method. I was held back from including gnome network manager, a situation that didn't sit well with myself. Which is great as the user can have the option of enabling and disabling wifi as required. Adding this will be an improvement (as will the turnng off of the power saving features of the wifi, something I haven't recommended as thb I could see it being more hassle that it's worth to describe what is required, delving into systemd is required). Tho I did manage to sneak in gvfs-backends & gvfs-fuse. The zram swap thing was a bit of a debacle, something I blame myself for not fully checking the swap, which did rear it's head. Yes I get the ID Ten Tea award for that.
2: No patch was required for RT_PREEMPT, that was part of the Vanilla Kernel that was selected (which required thought put into it) and many thanks to a certain member that helped clarify a few things regarding that, any patches applied were those that the RPi Foundation has on their github, no trickery on our side. Until their particular patches make it to the mainline kernel they will always be applied.
3: You could of asked. Now this is really the bit I thought was a terrible assumption to make.You think those that manage Linuxcnc allow randoms to upload untested content to their server ? That is something extremely silly to assume, especially with 20 years of Linux experience.
4: Up to you.
5: That's people assuming things regarding the menu config. It has been clearly stated that whilst the image runs on the RPi and the kernel has been sourced via the RPi Foundation, it is Debian at is core and not RPi OS. Someone who thinks critically would assume that there would be differences in how things are done. Not understanding, excepting or realising that that things will always be the same way on a particular platform is rather naive (I would say silly myself).Apart from the kernel and a couple of RPi specific utilities, Debian was the easier solution. Basing anything on RPiOS requires removing a lot of Raspberry Pi Foundation branding from any image that was built and distributed. Hence the reason there was a switch from using Ubuntu in the emc2 days to Debian now.
Being able to actually install Linuxcnc & a required kernel onto a Raspi OS image would have been infinitely simpler, but the copyrighted branding becomes an issue. Which is their right and a good thing as well as it a protection for users, as a lot of people will blindly down load this or that. Hence scammers have it easy.
Supplying instructions for getting Linuxcnc on a Raspi image may have been one way, but people being what people are. I used to be a traffic controller and have lost confidence in people being able to follow instructions or wanting to.