Installation Nightmare! All out of ideas! :-(

Yes, from memory rufus goes out and gets a bit of software. 
I always used to use Win32DiskImager but it let me down for this!

UEFI will not worry Bookworm in the slightest.

Thanks, so far so good, it's at least got past where it was crashing before. and is installing!

Ok, I have got this far, what do I do here please?
 

I assume that I should use /dev/sda ?

I tried that and it failed! So I'm now back at the 'Install GRUB bootloader menu item!'

Edit, I tried again and this time it gave me the actual path to the hard drive so I was able to select it and continue on.

The install reported that it was completed successfully and to remove the USB and reboot

It is now booting to a shell command and it only gives me these two options at startup:

 

When I reboot I get to this screen and have no idea what to do now!

 

I don't understand why you have been asked to actually type in an option there.  I've never had to do that. Usually, there is a list to select from. It kind of makes me think you have overthought the install and moved away from the defaults or you are not selecting to use the whole drive when installing. 

I finally managed to get linux running and linuxcnc installed on the laptop.
My next issue, and the whole point of the exercise is to install Probe Basic.
When I try to install the PyQt components, I get some errors, so subsequently the Probe Basic installer fails! . I seem to remember reading somewhere that Probe Basic is written in Python2.7, and I suspect that this iso does not have 2.7 by default. Would I be on the right track here?

Edit - I reinstalled linux on the BeeLink using the Force UEIF compatibility option and it installed and booted correctly this time!

Thanks folks for your help.