Hi Tom, please let me know how I can send help! More coffee and pizza, or perhaps some nice beers?
Thanks for the offer and sorry for the late reply.
If you figure out how to get more time out of a day, let me know, that is what i need most!

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Rod is right, those optimizations are fairly narrow and in usual use not really impactful.
In general, by now all major distros are within several percent of each other in anything as far as speed is concerned, and so are in usability and stability, so here are some reasons why i use Mint for everything:
-fast boot time
-very stable and reliable
-even when i break something badly, it can be restored, always
-can run for months without a single issue
-Mate DE is not the most "user friendly", Gnome and KDE plasma are better for that
-Mate is not "touch" freindly, but it is better than Windoze and Gnome and KDE win here again
Why i do not like other distros:
-Debian has a nasty habit of stuff just stopping at random, mainly taskbar stuff
-Debian boot time has improved a lot, but not yet Mint times
-Tuxedo OS has issues with kernel licensing, it is very user friendly and reliable but just a bit heavier on resources, touch works out of the box, LinuxCNC needs a lot of cuddling to make work so does not pay off
-Fedora boots very slow, a bit sluggish on older hardware, quite good with touch, does not use DEB's, no LinuxCNC
-i will not use anything that does not open a terminal with CTRL+ALT+T !!!
-have not used Gentoo in ages, it was very fast and very stable, has issues with some hardware back then but mostly could be made to work.
-SlackWare was even faster than any of those, was a pain to setup but worked like a "nuclear powered battleship", no idea where it is now
-FreeBSD was similar to SlackWare and got better when PC-OS came out
-Porteus, Pupps, etc, are very good at what they do, and there is DebianDog Pup with older LinuxCNC